Women have been asking for years, “Where have all the real men gone?” Men are also starting to wake up and look at themselves only to find that they are not truly satisfied with the man they have become or the life they are living.
Do you feel like you’re never good enough, no matter what you do? Are you constantly saying “yes” when you really mean “no”? Do you always take care of other people, but never get anything back in return? Do you wish you were better at interacting with women, whether it’s in dating or serious relationships? If you’re in a relationship, can you feel her starting to lose interest in you? Have you somehow lost the spark you had when you first got together? Have all your efforts to rekindle the flame been in vain?
Are you tired of always sacrificing your own needs and wants for others? Are you tired of suppressing your healthy primal masculine desires and behaviors because you think others might reject you or be offended? Are you tired of living a life dictated by the opinions of others? Are you tired of feeling unhappy and powerless to change it?
If so, you might be a Nice Guy.
The good news is that there is a way for Nice Guys to become Real Men.
When you are a Real Man, you take charge of your own life, accepting both the power and the responsibility. You accept yourself exactly as you are, with all your weakness and your greatness. You rely on only yourself for approval, meet your own needs, face your fears and limiting beliefs, choose your own values, and passionately create the life you want to live. You have the attitudes and skills necessary to attract really great women into your life. You can confidently talk to anybody, men and women, without worrying about rejection. You have the power to accomplish anything as long as you are willing to pay the price. You can have the job you want, the relationships you want, the lifestyle you want. You no longer settle for mediocrity, and you no longer fear failure or success. Your life becomes an exciting adventure full of possibilities and amazing experiences!
My name is Ryan. I’m a Mentor at Master the Masculine. After spending too many years as a Nice Guy, I went through many more years working to change myself. It was hell, but I did it. I spent years in therapy, read a gazillion books, did workbooks and exercises, and tried every conceivable self-help device out there. I’ve run a weekly men’s support group for over two years, and learned much from the experiences of others as well. After all this, I have a mountain of knowledge on how a man can find happiness and fulfillment in a society that seeks to squash the manliness out of us. My passion now is to pass on what I have learned and help change lives for the better.
I’m not a businessman. I’m a Mechanical Engineer. I don’t know squat about sales or marketing or websites. I’m learning all of that as I go. What I do have is a burning passion to teach what I know, and a determination of steel that will not allow me to give up, no matter how steep the challenge. My guiding philosophy for Master the Masculine is the same as my personal philosophy for life in general: “Be real, and have fun!”
I hope you’ll join me!